Life works through you
Life is continuously and silently working through you no matter how many times you rise and fall, no matter how many times you are born and die, no matter how many stories you are part of.
You are continuously being made. Nature is continuously working on your uniqueness. It is not your responsibility to make yourself. You cannot make yourself unique as all that we know is what others have already done. That, others are doing better than you and you are apparently lagging behind, is an illusion.
You have covered the exact distance that you were supposed to cover. You are at par with everyone else.
The only difference is that you are not like others. You are unique.
If you compare yourself with others using the same scale, you will never find yourself at par.